Why Hotels Make Good Wedding Locations

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As soon as you select your wedding date, it’s time to start looking for a location. Couples understandably want to find the most romantic location for their weddings, but pricing is a huge aspect to first consider. Hotels often provide the entire appealing package: rehearsal and reception areas, ceremony location and plenty of amenities for all guests. When you choose the right hotel for a wedding, you eliminate much of the stress and annoyance that can take over the process of planning.

One of my friends recently got married at a hotel for her wedding, and it was a great experience for all involved. Everything was located in one place, making it one of the easiest travel experiences I’ve ever had; I didn’t need to keep driving around town to find a nearby location to spend the night, or to switch locations between the rehearsals and reception and the actual wedding. It’s clear that having all aspects of a wedding in a single place makes things so much easier for those getting married along with their guests, who may have to drive far enough to get to the hotel.

There are a lot of specific reasons to choose a hotel for your dream wedding, aside from the fact that many famous and wealthy celebrities have chosen hotels for their special occasion.

Reserve Many Rooms

Larger hotels are more likely to allow you to reserve ten or more rooms, which can truly come in handy when you have your wedding date set and want to make sure your guests have a place to stay in advance. Reserving room blocks also means you can give guests choices of room rates and location, which is really good if you want your rowdier college friends to stay separate from your parents. If you find that guests can’t come or if more are visiting unexpectedly, be sure to coordinate these changes with the hotel event manager so they can make alterations to the reservations quickly.

Convenience

There are many advantages of having your wedding ceremony, rehearsal and reception take place at a hotel. The biggest reason is because guests won’t have to travel all over the place to get to the ceremony and reception when they’re unfamiliar with the area. You’ll also be able to eliminate the need to reserve more parking lots, and you’ll keep those who’ve had a little too much to drink during the reception from driving to another hotel to sleep for the night.

All the amenities are located in one place as well, with pools, banquet halls and spas all available for guests for a fun celebration. Catering is also available in many hotels, giving you and your guests quality meals for a reasonable price as well.

Welcoming Bags

One great way to welcome all of your guests on arrival is to provide them with welcoming bags. Hotel staff will usually be able to work with you to distribute customized bags to all guests. Welcoming bags can be exciting for guests, giving them samples of local food that’s unique to the location, along with other products not provided by the hotel.

Kids’ Suite

Weddings aren’t the most exciting place for kids most of the time. If you want all guests, including the children, to be happy with their stay, you can oftentimes have a suite reserved for them, with a hired professional sitter to watch over them. This keeps the kids safe and occupied while their parents can enjoy the wedding and reception. You should make sure you know how many guests have kids before the wedding so you can plan ahead when hiring a sitter, and make sure the suite contains enough activities and snacks to keep the kids entertained.

Package Deals

When planning special events, such as weddings with rehearsal dinners, receptions and ceremonies, hotels will offer special deals in many cases. After all, they should give you a deal because you’re coming to them for one of the most important occasions in a person’s life. For instance, a budget Albuquerque hotel can provide you with special deals that encompass nearly every aspect of your wedding, giving all guests traveling to Albuquerque the opportunity to stay at a lower overall cost to both you and them.

When you choose to have your wedding at a hotel, it’s a decision that’s likely to carry no regrets. You’ll be able to save a lot of money while pleasing your guests with convenience and quality of location. You can take that exotic trip on your honeymoon away from everyone after the wedding, but to make your wedding as enjoyable for friends and family as possible, consider a quality hotel for your ceremony and all that surrounds it.

Different Types of Bollards and Their Uses

Two of seven bollards by St Mary's Church, Chu...

Two of seven bollards by St Mary’s Church, Churchyardside, Nantwich, Cheshire (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

There are many different types of traffic posts which serve different purposes depending on where they’re located. Many cities are taking more safety precautions that are more visually appealing and attempting to ease the flow of traffic, all while protecting pedestrians more and more. Some of the bollard innovations towns and cities utilize today are really impressive and surprisingly unnoticeable, which is why I’ll be showcasing some of them here.

Stylized Bollards

In order to encourage more personalization for buildings and unobtrusive protection in general, stylized bollards can be manufactured to appear as works of art instead of security measures. These are great for security while blending in with other pieces in an art district, or simply contributing to a more relaxed environment in a business plaza.

Flexible Bollards

These bollards are used more for temporary purposes than anything else. They are used to test changed curb lines, widened sidewalks, roundabouts and traffic islands. When run over, they will stand back up immediately, bolted to the ground. Many of them even contain bendable lights inside that aren’t affected by impact of any kind.

Breakaway Bollards

This kind of bollard is intended to break off when a car hits it. They deter unauthorized traffic, but allow emergency personnel to drive through them in an emergency situation, particularly in areas with heavier traffic and no other way around.

Planters

While not providing the heaviest security like official bollards, planters are used in certain locations to mark widened pathways, border around streets, or restrict unauthorized vehicles from entry. They’re a more visually appealing security measure, and you may not even recognize them as bollards as much as you would view them solely as environmentally conscious decoration.

Heavy Duty Bollards

While oftentimes not physically intimidating in size, fixed, removable or collapsible bollards can provide great security with both heavy duty strength and deterring colors. These heavy duty bollards fabricated by companies like Traffic Guard can successfully mark off parking lots and garages, pedestrian pathways, store entrances, warehouses and many other locations.

Bell Bollards

These little guys are specially designed in their bell-like appearance to allow vehicles to roll around them, keeping them off of traffic islands in the middle of the road while still permitting U-turns or other tight turns. Vehicles hit the side slopes, where the wheels slide down before they have a chance to go over them.

Rising Bollards

These have become pretty popular in Europe, and are electronically programmed to only allow access for buses and emergency personnel, rising up from beneath the ground to block all other vehicles. They tend to entrap vehicles into crashes with their deceptively slow rising action. Drivers often attempt to drive through right after a bus passes through, only to find the bottom of the car skewered and resting above the ground. They’re a good idea to ease traffic by separating buses and cars, but it seems like they can cause more problems as well by tempting fearless drivers. You can read more about my thoughts on these here.

Telescopic Bollards

These are essentially the same as rising bollards, only not automatic. Sitting in the ground, these posts can be raised and lowered with the use of a key, giving people easy access to a location without having to worry about storage or vehicle clearance requirements. They get their name from their relatively short telescope-length stature.

Temporary Curbs

Some bollards are available in a temporarily-placed curb. The device is comprised of many plastic paddles or bollards that are connected in a single line. They are entirely useful for larger areas that need to be quartered off in emergency situations, or to add more borders for parking lots.

Their Invisibility Says Something

We never seem to realize just how much protection is put into action. Cities, parks and other locations are very good at strategically placing their security posts, keeping them working for us as a transparent army while allowing the environment to consume our attention. We see them everywhere, but it really shows the dedication of the manufacturers and installers when they can be everywhere and seemingly nowhere at the same time.

Cities often seem to be the locations that contain the most security. Everything from terrorist attacks and robberies to drunk-driving incidents can easily be deterred and blocked when offending drivers do finally notice the implemented protection. It’s always impressive when I go out now and actually pay exclusive attention to how so many locations are protecting us. Everything from a seemingly decorative row of plants to dimly-lighted posts illuminating a night pathway are there to see to it that we get to our destinations safe and sound, and is perhaps a reason not to be as fearful about our wellbeing as we’re often led to feel. I know I’m satisfied when I know what my town is doing to keep me, my customers and many others as safe as possible.

Omvergereden paaltje Compromized bollard

Omvergereden paaltje Compromized bollard (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Why We Need More Bollards for Parks and Pathways

Bollard with mill Mill "Rijn and Lek"...

Bollard with mill Mill “Rijn and Lek” in the background, Wijk bij Duurstede in The Netherlands. (Photo credit: dirkjankraan.com)

English: Internally illuminated bollards, Orpi...

English: Internally illuminated bollards, Orpington High Street. Picture taken by James Gray 14th Jan 2006 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

There are unfortunately a lot of people out there who believe they truly are the kings of the road. Some are so desperate to get wherever they’re going that they’ll voluntarily drive down pathways meant only for authorized vehicles or even pedestrian trails. One of the problems I had in my neighborhood park involved teenagers who at night would drive down a narrow walkway as a shortcut to the parking lot, when they were really supposed to drive around to access it. Nobody ever got injured, thankfully, and bollards were set up soon after the township discovered what they were doing, but it was inexcusable behavior; how hard is it to drive fifty extra feet on an empty road, anyway?

Today I’ll describe why I believe bollards should be at every single park and pathway, where vehicles and people can be a little too close for comfort.

They may not move in the way of a moving vehicle, or follow us around if we fear a reckless vehicle driving near us, but we can be certain that traffic bollards (such as those manufactured by a company that specializes in them – an example: Traffic Guard), will not allow anything to drive through them without a fight. Stainless steel bollards work excellently in protecting everyone in parks, and one of the best things is: they don’t need many. A large group of bollards can be unsightly, but the nice thing about pathways is that they only typically require one at either end. Parking lots may require a few more, but I’d rather have added protection than worry about how it will look, not that they’re that obtrusive.

Collapsible posts are great because if emergency vehicles need to get through, all emergency personnel need to do is unlock and lower the post. They’re not high maintenance, either, because many models have locks on the top that avoid freezing and other weather conditions. They’re economically sound security measures—if a vehicle drives onto park property and damages trees, fences, or other property, it could cost a lot more to repair than when you simply have a couple of bollards to maintain. Bollards also don’t look as terrible as a torn up park.

Protecting People Should Always Go Above Aesthetics

Park owners might be reluctant to have bollards constructed at parking lots or on pathways because they’re worried about ruining the natural environment. Again, protecting the park and its visitors (and possibly nature’s inhabitants if it’s a forest preserve) should be top priority. A few strategically placed bollards won’t leave a huge visual scar on the property, and if they’re removable posts they can be taken out of the ground if necessary. Besides, even if they can sometimes be obtrusive, I’d much rather have to endure an eyesore than have to imagine what could’ve happened here.

Certain paths for authorized vehicles can even contain bollards at potentially dangerous twists and turns, leading into a swamp or other unsafe or preservation areas. People won’t be the only ones protected; the wellbeing of wildlife is just as important.

More Protection for Bikers

One thing about parks will never change: Bikers love them. Few things are more enjoyable than taking a bike to a forest preserve or recreational park, following designated trails that run for miles. Few things can be more devastating than a car accident that could have been avoided. At bike path entrances, different kinds of posts can be set up to allow only bikers to enter, so if the paths are wide enough there’s no confusion for drivers about whether or not it’s a road for motorists.

At areas where motorways and bike paths intersect in parks, sturdy bollards can stand at either side of the intersection, keeping motor vehicles from ramming into a biker about to pass. Simply having a stop sign won’t do much for overly eager drivers, and if a bike’s front wheel happens to stick out into the roadway, the bollards can help prevent the car from clipping it if they’re driving too close.

There Can Never Be Too Much Protection in Parks

That may sound like a bold statement, but the truth is that parks will never stop being a place for kids to run wild, walkers and joggers to enjoy themselves, and bicyclists to travel freely. This kind of place is exactly where safety measures should be maximized, effectively keeping cars and other vehicles away from pedestrians and wildlife using not only separate roads, but also physically resilient traffic posts.

These are simply my main reasons why Parks and Recreation departments everywhere should do what they can to install this kind of security system at all of these locations.

How to Make Gender-Specific Colors or Patterns “Work” at Important Events

Plaid is perfect of Christmas celebrations and ’90s themed events.

It’s kind of silly to think of colors and patterns as masculine or feminine, but we all do it. Fortunately, when planning an event, whether it’s a birthday party or a wedding, you can pretty much ignore traditional color connotations. Likewise, we can ignore any gender ascribed to particular patterns, like plaid and floral. Certainly, some colors and patterns are more conducive to certain events than others, but you should never hesitate to rent table linen or choose a color palette based on outdated notions of gendered color.

Pride London Parade, July 2011

Pink Knows No Boundaries

Back in the early days of metrosexuality (you know, back when personal grooming was considered a strictly feminine activity), Ryan Seacrest made headlines (for some reason) over his decision to wear pink shirts. Since then, more men have come to terms with the idea that all colors are gender-neutral. Women, of course, have always had more leeway in terms of what they decide to wear or what table linen we choose, but our friends might raise an eyebrow if we decided to decorate our domicile like a hunter’s lodge, where red plaid and green camouflage reign supreme.

Indeed, no matter how damaging and antiquated they are, stereotypes persist, and ignoring them won’t make them go away. It is not by chance that the Susan G. Komen Foundation chose pink as the go-to color for women’s health, or that men’s clothing consists of scores of neutral tones with the occasional pink or lavender collared shirt thrown in. We are all well-aware that attributing a gender to something as blatantly gender-neutral as a segment of the light spectrum is entirely silly, cultural . . . and common

Away from tradition

Back in the early days of metrosexuality (you know, back when personal grooming was considered a strictly feminine activity), Ryan Seacrest made headlines (for some reason) over his decision to wear pink shirts. Since then, more men have come to terms with the idea that all colors are gender-neutral. Women, of course, have always had more leeway in terms of what they decide to wear or what table linen we choose, but our friends might raise an eyebrow if we decided to decorate our domicile like a hunter’s lodge, where red plaid and green camouflage reign supreme.

Indeed, no matter how damaging and antiquated they are, stereotypes persist, and ignoring them won’t make them go away. It is not by chance that the Susan G. Komen Foundation chose pink as the go-to color for women’s health, or that men’s clothing consists of scores of neutral tones with the occasional pink or lavender collared shirt thrown in. We are all well-aware that attributing a gender to something as blatantly gender-neutral as a segment of the light spectrum is entirely silly, cultural . . . and common.

A J. Press plaid sport coat from the fall coll...

A J. Press plaid sport coat from the fall collection. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Manly, Manly Plaid

Ah, plaid. As mentioned above, it’s the preferred pattern of hunters and other manly men. While plaid goes in and out of style for women, men can always count on it for its robust color schemes and steadfast square patterned cloth. As the photo above shows, though, plaid is the perfect pattern for holiday celebrations and for any ’90s themed event.

Due to ’90s nostalgia, plaid has been making a comeback lately-and not just classic plaid tablecloths for outdoor events. To capitalize on this trend, one of the best ways to include plaid table linen in your event is to throw a ’90s themed party.

 

80’s night!

’80s night has become a standard at many night clubs, but the ’90s are a bit more difficult to pin down. This is the era that saw TLC rise to fame alongside Pearl Jam, after all, so coming up with a unifying theme seems difficult. So if you decide to throw a ’90s party for a Gen-Y-er’s birthday, a plaid tablecloth rental will essentially cover every trend. It appeared in everything from Slackers to Clueless and remained popular right up to the teen pop invasion.

But what type of plaid? That will really depend on your personal taste. After all, there’s Kurt Cobain plaid and there’s Gwen Stefani plaid . . . and even Britney Spears plaid, for that matter. Your best bet would be to review your options for online tablecloth rental and go from there. Then set a ’90s playlist and party like it’s 1999.

 

Pretty in Pink

Again, women have far more leeway in terms of what we’re “allowed to wear.” In a perfect world, anyone should be allowed to wear anything they want, of course. I would argue that everyone should wear whatever they want in order to create that perfect world. We should also be able to throw around pink square tablecloths and put pink cherry blossoms everywhere without regard for traditional gender norms.

Because let’s face it-everyone loves cherry blossoms. Everyone knows that pink frosting is the best frosting. Everyone exchanges pink hearts and pink roses on Valentine’s Day, regardless of whether or not they have found a significant other. So pink napkins aren’t going to hurt anyone and pink chair ties will only serve as compelling bursts of color.

Pink is often associated with romance, and more couples, like my friends mentioned above, are working to incorporate it into the festivities. Often paired with neutral tones, pink table linen can be delicate or striking, depending on the tone you choose. Fuchsia and black look quite sophisticated together, while pale pinks are the perfect complement to ivory tablecloths. And no matter how you decide to make your pink palette look fabulous, be sure to include lots of pink flowers.

Go the Blues?

One of my friends decided to dress her beautiful baby girl in pale blue hand-me-downs. We didn’t think it was a big deal until the third person stopped to pat the child on the head and remark, “What a handsome baby boy!” While it can be hard to determine gender in a four-month-old, I got the distinct impression that it was the color blue that they deemed “masculine.”

So what is it about blue that makes “masculine,” anyway? It is so serene and ubiquitous that limiting it to one gender just seems inorganic. And, of course, women wear blue all the time without even thinking about its connotations. We really only think of blue as being a “boy color” with regard to children, so you can pull off a beach-themed party with blue table runners and shell-white chair covers quite easily.

Some might argue that darker shades of blue like navy are masculine due to their association with the armed forces, but women have served in armies since the invention of war, which renders this point ineffective. Navy is often considered a neutral in the fashion world, and it is perfect for creating an event with a nautical theme. You should stick with white table linen, but you can incorporate navy elsewhere, such as in the cloth napkins or in your flower choices. You may also add rope-like details throughout, and use round glass dinnerware to evoke portholes.

 

The Darling Buds of May

As noted in the “pink” section, everyone can love, or at least appreciate, cherry blossoms. Men do garden, after all, and they do appreciate the finer things in life, so associating floral prints with women only seems excessive. Modern floral prints tend to err on the side of neutral colors, anyway, so floral tablecloths are more a matter of elegant graphic design than they are literal drawings of flowers.

Events with a floral theme are particularly appropriate for the spring and summer. You may wish to take advantage of the abundant flowers during this time and stick with solid, square tablecloths, or you may want to extend the theme further. Some even like to match their linen napkins to elaborately-printed floral table linen.

Another option would be to look for glasses and dinner plates that reflect a floral motif. Think of bread and butter plates in the shape of daisies, or even small vases with a floral detail.

 

Rainbow

When all else fails, look to the sky for inspiration. Rainbows have become an emblem for diversity and acceptance, but they have always been popular motifs. Just think of the Dark Side of the Moon album cover as an example. By combining every color, they are the opposite of gender-specific.

Rainbows are unapologetically bright, so your options will basically come down to using neutral shades to temper that brightness, or just letting them be as ostentatious as you want. Both choices can yield delightful table linen arrangements. You can also go dark or light with it, and look for rainbow-inspired pieces of décor. Some companies make iridescent linen overlays, for example, and you can often find sets of martini glasses that showcase glass in every color of the rainbow.

Rainbow-themed events are some of the most difficult, and therefore the most rewarding, to arrange. Some prefer to decorate each table with linen in varying colors-a difficult task when table arrangements aren’t symmetrical. Others prefer to include different rainbow elements on each table. Perhaps an iridescent glass dinner plate, or even linen chair covers in alternating colors.

Not many have the ambition or time to plan a rainbow-themed party, so be thorough. Above all, have fun with it. Think of how you feel every time you see a rainbow after a storm and let it inspire you.

Looking for fun ways to integrate colors and patterns into your next event?

These websites are a great place to start.

Birthday Tablecloth Rental
Find the perfect tablecloth rental in any color, for any age group.
Smithsonian Magazine
A great article on the cultural history of gendered colors.
My Party Planner
Look for vendors, suggestions, and more for help planning your next event.